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..:: L O V E ::..

16 Sep

Efek malam minggu sendirian kah? Efek chat sama orang yang baru merasakan kembali cinta? Ah, saya pun punya cinta, walau belum menjadi milik saya seutuhnya, tetapi saya tau cinta sedang menunggu di sana🙂.

I love my family, a lot – no doubt. I love my father, my mother, my sisters. I love them all. But then I realized, my love for them comes naturally, I didn’t learn – I didn’t ask, I otomaticly knew – we love each others, since we are family..

Then I remembered when Another Opik sent me a Broadcast Message, saya lupa detailnya – tapi kurang lebih ceritanya seperti ini:

Ada seorang guru yang meminta muridnya untuk menuliskan sepuluh orang yang paling disayanginya. Lalu sang guru menyuruh murid tersebut menghapus 5 – maka terhapuslah teman” baiknya, menghapus 2 – maka terhapuslah anak” kandungnya, menghapus 2 – terhapuslah orang tuanya, yang tersisa – pasangan hidupnya.

Setelah BM, he updated his FB status,

Orang tua & anak bukan sy yg memilih, tp sy yg memilih sendiri ISTRI sy dari seluruh dunia. (August 4) – Taufik Abdullah.

At that time, I thought it was silly. I’m sure I will choose my parents. They’re my everything. I have no son/daughter yet, I don’t know how it feels – yet.

Then I realize, to love our parents – it will come naturally.. To love our kids – it will come naturally, since we didn’t choose them. They come to our life otomaticly. But someone who will accompany us for our entire life, we choose her/him – we have our right to choose who will stays with us – ’till the end of time. And it needs courage, effort, willing – to learn, how to love.. Because she/he is stranger at first.. To love and be loved, we create that feeling..

Make somebody love me is one thing, but make me love somebody is different – and it’s special. – Wafi Wifqatillah

Aga sedikit ga percaya makhluk ini bisa mengungkapkan hal sekeren ini, hoho.. But I couldn’t agree more.😉 We should fight for our own happiness, and we can’t depend our happiness to others.

Finding someone we love who can makes us to be a better one is more than just a gift. – Mecca Faiza

Finding someone needs time. People come and go, but there will be, at the right time, at the right place, with the right person. Just be patient, because as we know – somebody for someone😉

Yup, weekend ini saya sendirian di kosan, jauh dari ortu, jauh dari 2 adik” tersayang saya, jauh dari my fiance, jauh dari sahabat” saya, but now, as I know now, we’re happy😀

Sept, 16 2012, 12:57 am

 
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Posted by on September 16, 2012 in Flame of Family, Flame of People, Flame of Thought

 

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4 responses to “..:: L O V E ::..

  1. holyland :p

    September 16, 2012 at 1:17 am

    Huuuaaaa itu grammar saya yg salah.. *makes us :p and At that time, I thought it was silly. I’m sure I will choose my parents. 😀

     
    • Mr. Opik

      September 17, 2012 at 8:49 pm

      beda ya kalo gaul sama anak bahasa, hehe..

       
  2. annisaa

    September 16, 2012 at 4:34 am

    aw..aw..aw..hehe suka tulisannya. Apa lagi kata2 temennya opik: ortu&saudara bukan kita yg milih, tapi pasangan kita yg milih (ya kurang lebih gitu lah)..hmm jadi kepikiran apa kabar yg dijodohin?pasangan pun ga bisa milih:-( how poor!hehe anyway, basicly, semua juga pasti dah ditentuin sama Allah SWT. Cuman ada yg butuh dicari, ada yg cukup diem and dah ngejogrog. Dan sesuatu yg diusahain tentu efeknya kebih dasyat dari hal yg cuma dikasih. Pokonya tetap semangat. We create ur futur!:)

     
    • Mr. Opik

      September 16, 2012 at 11:14 am

      kalopun dijodohin, diri kita yang memilih pada akhirnya – menerima, atau tetap diam dan pasrah. Tetap ada proses memilih dalam diri..🙂 duh, jadi inget proses perkenalan teka sama sang mantan ketua himpunan + ketua bem fakultas yang sekarang jadi suami, penuh perjuangan ya? hoho..

       

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